There's little worse than having all your worst fears come true. The thing about infertility anxiety is that it's based on real fears; and when the worst happens it validates all the anxiety you were feeling until that point.
At 7w5d today's ultrasound there was no hearbeat. No fetal pole. It's over.
Friday, May 19, 2017
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I am so sorry. I wish there was something that I could do or say. This just plain old sucks. Sending you a big virtual hug.
ReplyDeleteOooohhhhh nooooooo!!!! I'm so so sorry! There are no word, but I'm praying for you!
ReplyDeleteOh no :(. I'm heartbroken for you. I don't know what to say, I'm so incredibly sorry you have to go through this. I'm sending you all my love and strength.
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